Ella,So, you were kicked out of The X Factor.
And are probably even now surrounded by people who want to talk to you , promote you , and yes - use you.
My advice is this:
1. Just remember that the overall 'winner' is not necessarily the winner - you have enough talent to forge a fantastic and long lasting career in the business. The real winner is the one who can cope and excel.
2. Stay away from any negative crap (including people). Think you know what I mean - and those people are already causing you to doubt yourself. Don't listen. No one has the right to make you feel bad UNLESS you allow them to.
3. Your dream is happening now, stay focused on it and stay true to yourself. Be careful of anyone who tries to change who you are (and saying they know best). They don't.
4. Surround yourself with people YOU like and people YOU trust. Everyone needs support - ESPECIALLY when they are under the spotlight. It's a long fall down without it.
5. Keep your feet on the ground - after all , it's 'only' a job (but a great one!). What's really important is having fun, enjoying life and being healthy.
Finally - Well Done Ella. The. World. Is.Your.Oyster.
Take the stage.
....and pass this note on to your friends, they'll need it.
Amana Walker
Straightforward,straight talking coach
www.amanawalker.com
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